Cancer Journey: A Caregiver's View from the Passenger Seat - Brossura

Cynthia Zahm Siegfried

Brossura

ISBN 10: 0615625835 ISBN 13: 9780615625836

Casa editrice: CZS Books

Riassunto

On the day my husband, Jim, was diagnosed with cancer, we began a journey that changed us forever. I was just a passenger, along for the ride, but I was profoundly affected by the illness. Jim frequently said he believed cancer is harder on the caregiver than the patient; I don t believe that for a minute. One thing, though, is certain: the view from the passenger seat is .different. During our trip, I learned that being caregiver to a seriously ill person has problems different from, but equally as serious as, those of the patient. Like many thrust into this position, I was ill-equipped to handle the job. For help I turned to God, who showed me great and mighty things, which I had not known before (Jeremiah 33:3). After recovering from the initial shock of the diagnosis, I determined to help my husband fight the disease. I hoped that through diligent research we could learn which treatments, tools, and tricks might put him in the ten percent who survived this kind of cancer for five years. I became a woman with a mission. But I soon realized this missionary needed help. My real burden as a caregiver was the emotional stress not the physical. A cancer diagnosis is followed by a psychological and spiritual crisis as we move through the stages of grief toward acceptance. Before I could accept the possibility of my husband s death, I had to answer the basic question Why are we here and where are we going? Once I had done that I was able to rest on God s promises and find hope in the midst of a grim prognosis. When I relinquished all illusions of control and depended on God for my strength and wisdom my burden was lightened. I actually experienced moments of humor and joy on what would otherwise have been a dismal, terrifying trip. I found my place was not in the driver s seat but in the passenger seat offering support to my husband, as God lovingly chauffeured us over the peaks and through the valleys. True to His Word, He made a way in the wilderness and streams in th

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• Editore: CZS Books
• ISBN 10: 0615625835
• ISBN 13: 9780615625836
• Rilegatura: Copertina flessibile