How to Be a Friend to a Friend Who's Sick - Rilegato

Pogrebin, Letty

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ISBN 10: 1610392833 ISBN 13: 9781610392839

Casa editrice: PublicAffairs, 2013

Riassunto

Everyone knows someone who's sick or suffering. Yet when a friend or relative is under duress many of us feel uncertain about how to cope.Throughout her recent bout with breast cancer, Letty Cottin Pogrebin became fascinated by her friends' and family's diverse reactions to her and her illness: how awkwardly some of them behaved how some misspoke or misinterpreted her needs and how wonderful it was when people read her right. She began talking to her fellow patients and dozens of other veterans of serious illness, seeking to discover what sick people wished their friends knew about how best to comfort, help, and even simply talk to them.Now Pogrebin has distilled their collective stories and opinions into this wide-ranging compendium of pragmatic guidance and usable wisdom. Her advice is always infused with sensitivity, warmth, and humour. It is embedded in candid stories from her own and others' journeys, and their sometimes imperfect interactions with well-meaning friends. How to Be a Friend to a Friend Who's Sick is an invaluable guidebook for anyone hoping to rise to the challenges of this most important and demanding passage of friendship.

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Eve Ensler, playwright and activist "How to be a Friend to a Friend Who's Sick gives us excellent tools and moving experiences to love and nurture the sick and dying. It urges and enables us to move towards those in need rather than fleeing in terror or despair. It is a handbook of kindness and care and will help patients and healers, which is ultimately all of us."
Harold Varmus, Nobel Laureate in Medicine "After examining a potentially difficult and nearly universal experience---dealing with a friend's illness -- from many points of view, Letty Pogrebin has turned her findings into wise and witty lessons about a prized but neglected human trait: empathy. In advising us on what to do and say, she also shows why she's the kind of friend we all would want to have if we were sick.”

Bruce Feiler, best-selling author of  THE COUNCIL OF DADS and THE SECRETS OF HAPPY FAMILIES As she has throughout her writing career, Letty Pogrebin has once again hit on a topic that everyone whispers and wonders about but is loath to discuss out loud.  HOW TO BE A FRIEND TO A FRIEND WHO'S SICK is taboo-busting, groundbreaking, and had me fist-pumping with glee.  Take this brave, much-needed book along to your next family gathering or visit with a friend.  I guarantee that the conversations it will evoke will be life-changing.”
Kirkus Reviews "A cancer survivor channels her ordeal into reflections on the nature of empathy and friendships . The author's sharp advice illuminates many of the more common gray areas governing what to say to an ailing friend, appropriate visitation frequencies and durations, and proper gifting. She also provides tips for good behavior when a friend's parent or child is gravely ill . A useful refresher course on navigating the complicated territory of compassionate companionship.”

Publishers Weekly Pogrebin, a veteran feminist, author, and cofounder (with Gloria Steinem) of Ms. magazine, uses her experience with breast cancer and nearly 80 interviews with friends and patients to craft this bluntly practical and gently humorous guide to the dos and don'ts of caring for the ill .It's the bravery and wisdom Pogrebin brought to her own battle that lifts this guide from a mere list of sickroom rule to the invaluable lessons for sickness and health.”

Wall Street Journal [A] kind of communication chasm, the one between the ill and those who care about them, is addressed with sympathy and humor in Letty Cottin Pogrebin's How to Be a Friend to a Friend Who's Sick, a guide to what might be called "compassion etiquette.”

USA Today

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In a warm and sympathetic book inspired by her own experiences, a renowned author, journalist, and feminist offers new insights and concrete advice on how to relate to and help our sick friends

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• Editore: PublicAffairs
• Data di pubblicazione: 2013
• ISBN 10: 1610392833
• ISBN 13: 9781610392839
• Rilegatura: Copertina rigida
• Numero edizione: 1
• Numero di pagine: 304