Identity: Who You Are in Christ - Rilegato

Geiger, Eric

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ISBN 10: 0805446893 ISBN 13: 9780805446890

Casa editrice: B & H Books, 2008

Riassunto

Everyone searches for a clear identity and craves to be known for something. Some find identity in their career, working overtime to do more than just pay the bills, but to stroke the ego and experience the feelings thatgo along with high-profile accomplishments. 

Others define themselves in relationships, sometimes enduring unhealthy ones because, "Hey, it's better than being alone." Possessions can be identifiers. The new car becomes an expression of self; he likes the way other people look at his ride in traffic.

While careers, relationships, possessions, and other things are important aspects of our daily lives, they do not last forever. It is God who breathes purpose and meaning into the details of our lives, and when we seek our identity in places other than Christ, we find ourselves empty.

Identity, by bestselling author Eric Geiger (Simple Church, Designed to Lead, Creature of the Word) presents an exciting choice: to bounce back and forth between fleeting earthly fulfillments or to embrace God's invitation to lose our lives and find our identity in Him.

Come discover who you really are in Christ.

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Informazioni sull?autore

Eric Geiger is the Senior Pastor of Mariners Church in Irvine, California. Before moving to Southern California, Eric served as senior vice-president for LifeWay Christian Resources. Eric received his doctorate in leadership and church ministry from Southern Seminary. Eric has authored or co-authored several books including the bestselling church leadership book, Simple Church. Eric is married to Kaye, and they have two daughters: Eden and Evie. During his free time, Eric enjoys dating his wife, taking his daughters to the beach, and playing basketball.

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Identity

Who You are in Christ

By Eric Geiger

B&H Publishing Group

Copyright © 2008 Eric Geiger
All rights reserved.

ISBN: 978-0-8054-4689-0

Contents

Chapter 1: Moving Forward, 
Chapter 2: You Are His Child, 
Chapter 3: You Are the Priest, 
Chapter 4: You Are the Bride, 
Chapter 5: You Are His Servant, 
Chapter 6: You Are God's Friend, 
Chapter 7: You Are an Alien, 
Chapter 8: You Are His Ambassador, 
Chapter 9: The Ending, 
Notes, 

CHAPTER 1

Moving Forward

We cannot consistently behave in ways that are different from what we believe about ourselves.

— Kenneth Boa

It is time to move on. It is time to move forward. I am not referring to a new job, a new address, a new relationship, or a new style of dress. It is time to move on in your faith. It is time to move forward in your relationship with God.

If not ... then place the book back on the shelf. Don't buy it.

Maybe someone gave you the book, but you're not ready to move forward in your faith. Then fold the book a few times to give it that worn look and place it in the basket in your bathroom. Write the thank-you letter to your mom or your friend. But don't read the book. It will not be of much value to you.

Still reading?

Me too. And not only because I am writing.

I need to move on. Too often I stay in the same place spiritually. Too often I live on the truth of last month's devotional thoughts. Or the buzz of last year's mission trip. I keep talking about things God has shown me ... years ago.

Is there nothing new?

Stuck?

I was asked to speak at a conference in Oahu. For the geographically challenged, Oahu is an island in Hawaii. After I prayed about it for 2.2 seconds, my response was, "Yes, Lord, send me." After all, someone has to go to Hawaii. And it might as well be me. Kaye, my wife, joined me, and we took a week of vacation around the speaking engagement.

We rented a car so we could drive around the island. The car was great, but each day we could not find the condo where we were staying. We would leave for the beach in the morning, but in the afternoon we were lost. The map was hard to understand, and the street signs were very confusing because each sign was filled with five or six vowels.

We knew how to drive to the condo from the airport. Those simple directions were given to us when we arrived. And finding the airport was easy because of the big road signs.

So each day we followed signs back to the airport and started over. Each day we would start from the same place as the previous day.

We wasted a ton of time. We were frustrated in airport traffic. And we felt like losers driving through the terminal each day. No doubt we looked a bit suspicious.

Finally, we had enough. We were tired of wasting time. We were tired of reliving the same scenario each day. We were tired of going through the same motions each afternoon. We were stuck. It was time to move on.

Do you ever feel the same way?

Perhaps you are stuck, spiritually speaking. Maybe you feel like you have not grown much since you began your faith journey. Maybe you have been going through the same motions for years. If so, you are probably tired of the same scenario. Nothing has really changed along the journey.

If you were honest, perhaps you would even call your faith boring.

Being stuck is frustrating. So much wasted time. Same daily grind. Perhaps you keep going back to the airport because that is all you know. If you are stuck, you are not alone. If you find yourself a bit bored or even disappointed with your faith, you are not alone. But it is time to press forward.

Pressing Forward

The apostle Paul continually pressed toward his goal of being mature in Christ. He admitted that he was far from the goal, but he kept moving forward:

Not that I have already obtained all this [Christlikeness], or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. (Phil. 3:12–14 niv)

While Paul confessed he was not perfect, being stuck was not an option. He painted the picture of a runner who strained toward the goal. In other words, Paul assumed responsibility for his spiritual growth.

While Paul knew that God is the one who ultimately works in us (Phil. 2:13), he challenged Christians to partner with God in the process of becoming more like Christ. He told believers to "continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling" (Phil. 2:12 NIV).

Work out your salvation. Not work for your salvation.

Salvation is a free gift given by God to those who trust and follow Christ; therefore, salvation cannot be earned. But once someone has received the gift of salvation, he is challenged to live it out, to mature, and to grow. The apostle Paul also wrote:

Train yourself to be godly. For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come. (1 Tim. 4:7–8 NIV)

Some modern and very loose translations could have, Quit watching infomercials about spiritual exercise. Get off the couch and go for it. The stakes are high. Moving forward in your faith brings blessing and fulfillment in this life and rewards in eternity.

Yet many of us stay in the same place spiritually. Despite God's clear instructions to press forward, many of us are stuck. We have heard sermons and read books on growing as a Christian, yet we are the same. We know there must be more.

Why are we still stuck in spiritual adolescence?

SPIRITUAL ADOLESCENCE

In the 1960s a social psychologist named Erik Erikson developed a theory of development. He was not a biblical scholar or a theologian. He studied one aspect of God's general revelation: creation. He observed and studied people.

In Erikson's model, teenagers reach a point of developmental crisis. Erikson calls the crisis role confusion versus identity. In other words, teenagers are searching for an identity. They want to discover who they are, apart from their parents. They want to be known for something, anything.

As someone who worked with teenagers for nearly a decade, I believe that Erikson's model has some credence. Teenagers are searching for an identity, a reputation. For many, a bad reputation is better than no reputation. They experiment with their dress, their music, their friends, their hobbies, even their walk, attempting to define who they are.

I remember one student as the poster child. Jonathan was searching frantically for his identity. One month he showed up to our student ministry meetings with baggy pants hanging dangerously low, big headphones bumping rap music, and a super-cool handshake that took twenty-seven seconds to execute.

Next month Jonathan arrived wearing jeans so tight that you could decipher the brand of tobacco in his back pocket. He talked with a twang and played country music with the windows rolled down. I looked for the big gun rack on the back of his truck but did not see one.

Evidently Jonathan's country-bumpkin identity did not suit him well either. A few months later he was dressed in all black, wearing some chains, and listening to people scream. He called it music.

Jonathan's constant evolution was interesting to observe but also sad. I would lay awake at night and pray, "God help him find his identity in You."

Erikson believed that if people do not establish a coherent sense of their own personal identity, they would struggle throughout their lives with relating to others and relating to the world around them. According to Erikson, if a teenager does not walk away from his adolescent years with a clear sense of who he is, he will never have a healthy personality.

He will be stuck. He will be continually confused about who he is. He will live the rest of his life wavering back and forth still searching for an identity. He will live in perpetual adolescence for the rest of his life.

Stuck as a teenager in an adult body.

Sadly, many Christians are stuck in an adolescent faith. And what is the reason for the entrapment? Why are so many Christians living in spiritual high school?

I believe the stagnancy is directly proportionate to the fact that most Christians do not know who they are. Most Christians lack a coherent sense of who God has made them to be. Thus they wander through life merely existing instead of living the reality of who God has called them to be.

WHO ARE YOU?

Everyone searches for a clear identity. We long to possess a strong sense of who we are. And we crave to be known for something.

Some find their identity in their career. Working eighty hours a week is not working too much because the job is not only a job. The career is the person's identity. The career does more than pay the bills; it strokes the ego, pumps the daily grind with adrenaline, and provides feelings of accomplishment.

Others find their identity in relationships. Staying with him violates everything her conscience tells her. He is never going to propose. He treats her horribly, but she cannot walk away from the relationship. To be alone on Friday nights would be worse. At least she feels she belongs to someone. At least the relationship gives the perception to her friends and family that she is loved. Her identity is wrapped up in the relationship.

Some find their identity in possessions. The new car is more than a mode of transportation. It is an expression of who I am. I just feel right behind the wheel. He likes the way other people look at his car in traffic. In his mind they are looking at him. He carries a key chain with the emblem of his car to constantly remind him of his prized possession. He parks in the back of the lot under the light because a dent on his "ride" would be a blow to his identity.

Some find their identity in hobbies. Dressing up for the game with face paint and tailgating all day is more than fun. It is my trademark. Everyone expects him to wear the special tie on Friday's, the one with the team colors. And during the season he obliges. He memorizes the players' names and statistics, not only because he wants to know, but also because he likes to be asked. He feels good that he is known for something.

While careers, relationships, possessions, and hobbies are important aspects of our daily lives, they do not last forever. While God breathes purpose and meaning into the details of our lives, when we seek our identity in places other than Christ, we find ourselves empty.

So we have a choice. We can bounce from relationship to relationship, possession to possession, or career to career in a frustrating quest for our identity. Or we can embrace God's invitation to lose our lives and find our identity in Him (Mark 8:35–36). God invites us to a new and incredible identity. God invites us to find ourselves in Him.

And only in Him are we truly made whole.

The invitation to become a follower of Christ is also an invitation to a new identity. When you became a Christian, your identity changed. You have been made new through your relationship with Christ (2 Cor. 5:17). Your old life, your old identity is dead (Gal. 2:20).

To move beyond spiritual adolescence, we must understand who we really are in Christ. To move forward in our faith, we must discover or rediscover the identity that God has given us.

Rediscovering You

On the fourth day in Oahu, we committed to move forward. We refused to travel to the condo via the airport terminal. After a day on the beach, we pulled the car over and retrieved the map. Instead of taking another casual glance at the map, we dug into it determined to avoid the same routine.

After looking at the details of the map, we were able to locate exactly where we were. And we plotted a route back to the condo. Knowing where you are is critical.

Knowing who you are is critical.

It is time to take a closer look at the map. It is time to see what Scripture says about who you are. God is far from silent on the subject of your identity. The Bible is filled with phenomenal imagery describing your new identity as a follower of Christ.

While we will interact with many Scriptures in this book, the apostle Peter's reminder to Christians is particularly loaded with language about your identity:

You are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy. Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. (1 Pet. 2:9–11 NIV)

Real quick, do something. Grab a pen and jot down the images used in the above verses to describe your new identity.

You are a ...

Using Peter's reminder as springboard for the rest of the book, we will interact with who God says you are.

• You are a child of God (chosen people).

• You are a priest (priest).

• You are His bride (holy).

• You are His servant (belonging to God).

• You are God's friend (people of God).

• You are an alien in this culture (alien and stranger).

• You are an ambassador (that you may declare).

As we understand who we are, we are enabled by God to live the reality of our identity. We are able to move forward in our journey with Christ. Embracing and understanding our identity in Christ impacts how we live, liberates us from performance-based Christianity, and honors God.

Identity Impacts Living

Freedom Writers is an awesome movie. Yes, I am a guy and just admitted in writing that I not only watched but also enjoyed the movie. It is one of those movies that when you tell your macho friends that you saw it, you preface the confession with, "I saw it on the airplane. It was the only thing playing."

Kind of like The Notebook, which I have not seen. I promise.

Freedom Writers is based on the true story of Erin Gruwell, played by Hillary Swank, and her freshman English class. Erin is a first-year teacher who is assigned to teach a group of students that the administration and other teachers have already written off as failures. Erin is told that the majority of the kids will drop out of school within the year and will live as thugs, gang members, and street kids.

The street is all they know. The street is just who they are.

Erin does not accept the gloomy prediction. Through creative approaches she gives the kids a larger picture of the world. She helps them envision a new identity. They are important. They have a voice. They can make a contribution.

As the students embrace a different identity, their behavior changes. They stay in school and their grades improve.

One touching scene in the movie occurs when a student returns after missing several days of school. He has been struggling with being pulled back into street life. He returns to school and has graded himself an "F" for his journal writing.

Erin pulls him outside of the classroom and hands him his journal. She challenges him to continue in his studies. He is not a failure. She says to him with belief in her eyes and conviction in her voice, "I see you. I see who you are."

I see you. I see who you are.

Her belief in him inspired him to keep going. She reminded him of his greater identity. She was able to convince her students that they had a greater identity than being street kids or gang members. They had something to say. They were writers.

And writers write. Together, they wrote a book. The book was published, and their story became a movie.

Our understanding of our identity impacts how we live each day. We live out who we believe we are. "We cannot consistently behave in ways that are different from what we believe about ourselves."

God sees you. He sees who you are. And because He has given you a new identity, He expects you to live the reality of who you are.

• As a child of God, trust your perfect Father.

• As a priest, enter the presence of God anytime, anywhere.

• As His bride, live pure because He declares you pure.

• As His servant, serve gratefully.

• As God's friend, enjoy being with God.

• As an alien in this culture, live differently.

• As God's ambassador, represent Him in this world.

Identity Is Liberating

Attempting to live out our faith without first understanding our identity leads to a legalistic faith. Instead of enjoying the freedom that comes from a vibrant relationship with Christ, many Christians are handcuffed with performance-based Christianity. And the Christian life becomes a list of "have to's." You may have heard some of the list:

• I pray to God twice a day because I have to.

• I tell people about Christ because that is what I am supposed to do.

• I have to give so God will not have someone slash my tires while I am sleeping.

• I have to be nice ... well, because I am a good Christian person.

• I have to buy peanut brittle from the church group at Wal-Mart.

Sadly, church leaders and pastors (myself included) have perpetuated the problem by neglecting to teach people who they are. Instead we offer pointers to people on what to do or how to live. It is much easier to teach and preach through lists of what people should do.

Do these things. Live this way.

While practical and application-oriented teaching is critical, we must be careful not to approach the faith as a way to act ourselves into a new identity. Instead of beginning with identity, we often begin with behavior. The order is wrong. Our identity must be the starting point. When we understand who we are, we are motivated to live the reality of who we are.

Jesus never intended for us to live with a list of "have to's."

(Continues...)

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Dettagli dell'edizione

• Editore: B & H Books
• Data di pubblicazione: 2008
• Lingua: Inglese
• ISBN 10: 0805446893
• ISBN 13: 9780805446890
• Rilegatura: Copertina rigida
• Numero di pagine: 197
• Contatto del produttore: non disponibile
• Persona responsabile: non disponibile