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LaMarre, Dorian

 
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You're not needy. You're not broken. You're not too much.

You're expecting abandonment because abandonment is what you learned to expect.

This book is for anyone who can't stop checking their phone, analyzing every text for tone, asking "do you still love me?" and feeling relief for only a few hours before the doubt creeps back in. It's for people who know they're exhausting their partners but can't seem to stop seeking reassurance.

Inside, you'll discover:

  • Why reassurance never lasts (and what you actually need instead)
  • How love became unpredictable in your past—and how that shapes your present
  • The difference between reassurance and security (and why only one is sustainable)
  • What your partner experiences when you constantly need confirmation
  • Practical self-soothing techniques that actually work (without toxic positivity)
  • How to update your nervous system's expectations from old relationships
  • The practice of building internal security so you can love without gripping
  • How to tell if your anxiety is about old wounds or if the relationship is actually the problem
  • What "healed" attachment actually looks like (spoiler: it's not perfection)

This isn't a book about becoming "less anxious" through willpower or positive thinking. It's about understanding where your fear came from, why it made sense, and how to slowly teach your nervous system that this relationship—if it's a healthy one—operates by different rules than what you learned.

You learned that love is unstable. That checking and monitoring is survival. That people's feelings can vanish without warning.

Your nervous system is still running that program even when it doesn't apply anymore.

This book will help you update it.

Written in a compassionate, non-clinical voice that validates your experience while offering a clear path forward. You're not being fixed—you're being understood.

Your responses make sense. And they can change.

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