This book is about finding your way back, discovering everything you need to know so as to keep love and happiness flowing smoothly, while enjoying life unto the end. It is about the journey of man and woman, for unification and satisfaction of passionate love and for the choosing of a lifelong partner. Through playful teasing you can and will accentuate the enjoyment, but it must also be tolerated only to a point. Hence it will connect you to the missing links on love, courtship, marriage, sex and post marriage. These contributing factors, constantly reminds us, that man and woman are different from other animals and it is the fundamental instinct which brings them together. It is the de-coilable magnet within the hearts of the human race. In addition I must place great emphasis: when there is imminent danger through misunderstanding in a broken home, why not look right back at the courtship days, which was filled with the abundance of valuable materials to avoid a broken home. Thus with the knowledge and understanding of my work in this book you can unite with Love and overcome heart-break and despair.
FAMILY GUIDE
ON LOVE, COURT-SHIP, SEX AND MARRIAGE PLUS POST MARRIAGE & MISCELLANEOUS ITEMSBy Dee HoodithAuthorHouse
Copyright © 2011 Dee Hoodith
All right reserved.ISBN: 978-1-4634-1269-2 Contents
(a) Family Guide on—Love, Courtship, Marriage, Sex and Post marriage.......................................vii(b) Outlined Purpose Notes.......................................................................................vii(c) Dedicated to.................................................................................................xi(d) Preface......................................................................................................xiii1 The Treasure...................................................................................................12 Confidence your key to success.................................................................................43 How to choose by planet—whom you should marry............................................................124 Love...........................................................................................................195 Courtship......................................................................................................306 Kisses.........................................................................................................397 Flowers........................................................................................................418 Engagement, broken engagement..................................................................................469 Marriage.......................................................................................................4910 Menstruation, menopause, expectancy and menstrual cycle.......................................................5511 Naming of a child by planet—mother to deliver baby......................................................6612 Sterile or Baroness...........................................................................................6813 Adolescent and Parents........................................................................................7014 Masturbation..................................................................................................8015 Accessories for male & female.................................................................................8316 Do's and don'ts...............................................................................................8817 Impotence guides..............................................................................................9218 Abortion......................................................................................................9719 Child—parent relationship...............................................................................10020 The home—a red chapter..................................................................................10621 Divorce (a dim light) shipwreck...............................................................................11722 Scenes of post marriage.......................................................................................12823 Bring out your beauty with natural beauty hints...............................................................13224 Dispute guidelines............................................................................................13625 An answer—lost how to find back your path...............................................................14626 A woman must know.............................................................................................15927 Miscellaneous—psalms, prayers, candles, incense, proverbs, first aid treatments etc.....................16128 Conclusion....................................................................................................175
Chapter One
The Treasure
This book is one of practical experience. You must read it with some measure of seriousness, with the determination to make use of the appreciated or selected information's disclosed to you. It should not be read for fun or past-the-time, although you may find some sections interested in this direction, less it will be of little value and it is then better to turn to some novel, if your study will chiefly be for amusement.
Practice makes perfect, so you sit behind the driving wheel, please obey the traffic rules and signs, so as to avoid accidents. Remember that you cannot "done the world" but you will go and leave all that you came and meet in it.
It is a new recipe for those who never knew about it. It is not a new discovery or credit, but a venture to put the tits and bits that are existing, but however are sleeping and to bring them out to your inquisitive mind's reach in writing. So, that they could no longer be over-looked but would stir the minds to a greater never done scope.
I have no intention in this work to replace previous medical professional books on these subjects, but rather to contribute and support those earlier scientific writers from a practical observation of a layman. The more you read about these matters I guess the more you will build or expand your knowledge and only after some wise application that you have read, you will come to appreciate this valuable and indispensable book.
I assure you, it may even challenge you. At some section of this book, you will learn something new, regardless of how intelligent you may be. You cannot know if it is sweet, palatable or has the right blend, unless you taste of its contents. I suggest that you do so greedily and unhesitatingly before it is too late.
This book is prepared to assist the lovers, both men and women to mold and trim the life partner into idea and real one, who was once imaginary and a dream of your sleeping life. Many persons who read parts of my manuscripts expressed in no uncertain terms their regrets for not having the opportunity of this type of knowledge brought out herein, and so, urge me to hasten up the completion of this book, which you now have in your hands.
The title "FAMILY GUIDE" was carefully considered and selected. However, it must not be misunderstood and so, expect it to be a general guide to the family. Its scope is limited to guide the family on Love, Courtship, Marriage, Sex and Post marriage, along with a few back-up services which are of relevant interest.
If one were to generalize on this title, then it would found to be wide as the universe and rolling stone, because life itself and all attachments need guides and have no ending.
You will appreciate, then the enormity of this impossible task of presenting to my readers, volumes of Family Guides to cover the variety of fields that goes to make life successful or unsuccessful. Although, I am somewhat limited, the topics treated in this work have covered a wide range and provides enough to fill you with the knowledge and to lead a successful life in the now and possible the hereafter. And should it serve its intended purpose, then there shall be no regrets, other than this book should have been yours, long before now. Anyway, it's not late for you to adjust yourself to corrective measures as provided, you can make the remaining allotted period, a happy and successful one.
Those who have passed on before without it have already gone, but it is with you in your hands, therefore, make the full use of it the best as you can. Take it with you (not necessary the book), the knowledge therein, wherever you go, even to the end of your journey.
The given advice's have penetrated all barriers, such as race, color, religion and politics and tries to foster the understanding that a women must respect herself as a wife and to take the place, inclusive of her husband and that the husband duly responsible for her. Also, a husband must respect himself as a husband and his wife as being responsible for him. The one true ground must be dwelled upon, by both parties and regarded as "holy ground".
No party is to feel superior above the other, nor does that he or she know all and everything. There should be sharing of opinions and consultations or at least, each other are to be up dated in such areas as seen fit and necessary. A family code of conduct is important and will be helpful. Do not set aside verbal communications in a pleasant atmosphere, for it is a compass and a charging system, whereby, you could have your read-off if you are a good pilot.
From all appearances, the human race is covetous and will remain so, because it is the only machine at man's disposal that propels him and cause him not to be static. How then, can you be stagnated, when there is life in you? Are you not going to hold your end in this game of LOVE, and get along to win a gold medal?
Some say that the forbidden fruit is the passion fruit, be it what it may, I disagree that it is a forbidden fruit. But however agrees that it is the passion fruit. The iceman in his advertisement says "cool-down". When you would have drunk the ice he sells but this treats the heat only, while LOVE removes both heat and passion. It takes two, it gives two and it satisfies two.
Please read your compass right, to be on course and no man or woman should have the cause to complain against each other's habits after reading this work, for it will refresh you and cool you down and also mold you for the future role as a true friend.
Should you by chance, come across any part of this book inappropriate, I wish to apologize for it. I have no intention to be disrespectful, disgraceful or being vulgar. I have had thorough and indebt knowledge into my writing, that to my opinion is the best and attractive enough to stimulate and assist those who did not know the missing parts of this puzzle of life. Neither evil, nor harm is meant but rather, total good, for these facts are the plain truth from experience and experiments.
Chapter Two
Confidence, your Key To Success
My aim also in this book, is a definite one, in which I hope to help you reach out towards a happier, lustrous and more productive life which no doubt, worth living, for after all your horizon is brighter than ever thought, don't remain blind. Look beyond your distance, and you will find that there are several paths you can take on this journey. Be positive, have fate and all other missing links will be created with confidence. Confidence is and has always been the key to success.
This book is a voyage of discoveries; by awakening your own potentials that are asleep in you and it is a great adventure, rather than you no doubt, bugged-down in frustration with the many unnecessary problems. Please see it as the greatest treasure house, a vault of loving togetherness of man and woman, the best of god's creation. Is it not a fantastic accomplishment? For we were not placed on this planet to stagnate but to actively live on and our stay is limited. Therefore, why not enjoy being here than to condemn yourself.
Sex, was formerly a sinful word to use but today, it is fashionable and most frequently used, and it also being taught in schools with success. Many however, feel it is getting wise too young. Sex is not skin deep—that is color, clothes and appearance, it should be deeper than your strong emotional qualities disclosed as a charitable gift of sympathy and understanding rather than money. A hit and run man or woman looks for physical qualities and money. But in looking for a life partner, he or she looks for a person with a heart and although beauty and money are an important role, today matured people looks beyond that, for Love, loyalty and or peace and appearance.
You are in the game, all the time and you are the main actor on stage. You no longer feel helpless with stage fright and nervousness, but rather I lead you up to explore the joy of this world, with the caution of not destroying yourself from greed. To feel that life is good, then you must give to life and it will give back to you compensatively.
While reading, are you not thrilled with sexual emotions, triggered by the mental telepathy (actions of the mind to another distance away). The negative mental vibration is a force, which penetrates beyond the physical body slowly and unerringly, it builds up or tears down knowingly or unknowingly the whole moral fabric of our being.
The hurry habit must weigh against its failures and success and should be avoided in the art of lovemaking. It is better to decline things than to leave unfinished or badly done tasks. Doubt, is the old man of the sea that we accept to be constant, maybe unaware, carrying about on our backs and it bars the way to accomplishment. What are the possibilities? Please remember whatever in nature is thine own, is floating in the air or sealed in stone. It shall raise the hills and swim the sea and like your shadow, follows you. A happy heart creates a cheerful appearance, but by sorrow of heart, the spirit is broken. Likewise a merry heart does great like medicine, but a broken spirit dry the bones. So please cultivate cheerfulness, if you want to be happy and gay. Even, our health depends, feeds and is nourished by it.
Know thyself, is a great and encouraging watch-word in this field and in this chapter. The foundation of heaven and hell is laid in man's own soul. So, faith is that magnet, which unites man more and more to the center of life and love. Obedience to good thoughts is liberty while discontent is a managed web of faith and doubt in the soul of man.
The tree of knowledge grows beside the tree of life, which is faith, itself. Man does not know his mental strength. Man does not on this planet aim to live alone, but to live well and draw from this fountain the sum of happiness for which this whole world strives. This includes all those who are given the luxury and sensual pleasures (voluntary) who easily lose his way, the religious and philosophical idealist in radiance of light who sees only love in their path.
You must separate your thoughts from the idea, that peace; love and happiness do not belong to your earth life, but the celestial hemisphere only. Just forget your troubles and worries dispose of them, banish them away to the deep sea of nothingness and continue to live as though nothing had crossed your path.
Some of your greatest enemies are false and double-cross friends and they are: jealousy, selfishness, covetousness, undue sensitiveness, morbid meditation, brooding, seclusiveness, worry, despondency and excess. These, and such other negatives, must be interrupted and checked before they make a mental and moral wreck of their victims.
To my opinion, if given the opportunity to be of service, I would consider it an ideal privilege for you to contribute with input or reliability, integrity and perseverance, not only to fill the desired post (sexual desires) but to acquire the esteemed required skills, patience, inclusive of confidence, loyalty, faithfulness and sincerity, which are all necessary as your prescription in the specifics. I shall look forward for your kind and courteous approach and consideration and possibly sure success in all your endeavors and undertakings in the herein mentioned field, as treated in this book.
I am sure, very often you have seen the hypocrite's discreet but yet mocking smile and you can also detect the hidden sob of a broken-hearted, whose dreams of happiness crumbled away before their very eyes. No one must ever interfere with the right of man to love and love must not be condemned.
Society may laugh at you and judge you a brute, when you lower yourself by bringing out your animal lust for your loved partner. Probably, it is from grudge. However, by that moral thought, comes a more beautiful conception of love and when he puts feelings of real affection first, coupled by union of souls, it culminates (highest climax) in the deepest satisfaction of bodily union with the joy, which words cannot describe but can only felt. So, your vein is flushed with heated blood and your sexual passion arouses? Then, go right ahead and sort out the means to quench your thirst.
Why be at idle, why waste time? Are you asking yourself, how this could be? Then, the answers are in this very book, all you have to do is read on and do what you are told, for within thyself, must deliverance be sought. Therefore, start anew; this book will help you to achieve your creative powers.
Here are two poems; I treasured since I was a teenager. I cannot recall the author. I found them to be valuable. So, I will now pass them to you.
Opportunity # 1 (anonymous)
Master of human destines am I;
Fame, love and fortune on my footsteps wait;
Cities and fields, I walk, I penetrate;
Deserts and seas remote and passing by;
Hovel and Mart and Palace—soon or late;
I knock unbidden once at every gate;
If sleeping, wake—
If feasting—rise before I turn away;
It is the hour of fate;
Ant they, who follow me;
Reach every state;
Mortals desire and conquer every foe
Save death but those who doubt or
Hesitate; condemned to failure;
Penury and woe;
Seek me in vain and useless implore
I answer not, and return no more.
Of course, what is said here has some merit and influence, especially upon those who drop arms and surrender to ill faith. Most people are familiar with this first opportunity and so, face their future life on their past and pre-distinctive concept of feeling everything is lost and there is no more enjoyable and fruitful earthly race which you will encounter and you will have to explore and discover in this your un-avoidable adventure, based on the advice I have disclosed to you.
Be brave; set sail in this most enjoyable and pleasurable ocean of nectar and bliss. Are you not touched and ready to take flight? I can imagine your built-up excitement you now have and to own your treasure, whoever, it may be as quickly as possible. So, let me take leave here, as I pass you to the other valuable pages ahead.
Remember you are not the first or will never be the last and you are not alone on this free market. I am leading you. So, hold on to my hand tightly (this book), so that even if you slip you cannot fall.
Hope for the better, but just do not stop there, look at what this second savior, the kind-hearted opportunity has in store for you especially when you are in confusion and thinks that all odds are against you. Because this book has taken the title "Family Guide", I had to touch on a variety of topics which I felt to be interesting and meet the taste of the various readers, who may find attraction in their appreciative section.
Opportunity # 2 (anonymous)
They do me wrong, who say I come no more;
When once I knock and fail to find you in;
For every day I stand outside your door;
And bid you wake and rise to fight and win;
Wail not for precious chances passed away;
Weep not for golden ages on the wane;
Each night I burn the records of the day;
At sunrise, every soul is born again;
Dost thou behold they lost youth all against?
Dost reel from righteous retribution's blow?
Then, turn from blotted achieves of the past;
And find the future's pages white as snow;
Art thou a mourner? Rouse from thy spell;
Art thou a sinner? Sins may be forgiven;
Each morning gives thee wings to flee from hell;
Each night a star to guide thy feet to heaven;
Laugh like a boy at splendor that has speed;
To vanish joys be blind and deaf and dumb;
My judgments seal the dead past with its dead;
But never blind a moment yet to come;
Though deep in mire, wrong not your hands and weep;
I lend my arm to all who say, "I can";
No shame-faced, out-cast ever sank so deep;
But yet, might rise and be again a man.
This is your compass, use it to find your bearings and chart your course it will pilot you safe to the shores. Because of popular demands, I have brought in this chapter which, is based on a few hints on psychology, and it could be regarded as the warming up of yourself prior to your entry. Please remember, whatever is said in this book not to do, is simply based for our own good. However, love supercedes everything and should they hinder or interrupt the normal loving relationship between the two of you, then, the choice must rest between you both. Surely if you both have confidence in yourselves, going forward should not be difficult.
(Continues...)
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