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Many get tripped up over the very concept of written protocols. We’ve met many Masters who believe that writing out the way they want things done removes creativity from the relationship. That’s not the way we see it.In our experience, a protocol manual is much more than documenting rules of service. Writing a protocol manual helps you examine and refine your relationship and your relationship management style. The very process of creating a manual such as this reveals the kinds of service Master really wants from the slave and the kinds of service the slave can actually deliver. In that light, writing a protocol manual is an exercise in clarifying the intent of your relationship.Biased as we are, we assert that protocols help to reprogram both the Master’s and the slave’s brains. They help you create habits. Protocols don’t merely define how you look on the outside, protocols help shape how you think on the inside. Since protocols specify the way Master wants this particular slave to do things, and since people are different from one another, protocol manuals are person-specific.

M. Jen Fairfield Ms Fairfield grew up in the world of authority-imbalanced relationships. She was the daughter of a military officer who taught his family about honor, integrity, and loyalty as well as about formal, structured behavior. Jen found her home in the Leather culture in the fall of 2010 and has embraced her calling as a Leather woman—to live a highly focused life with partners who are willing to hold themselves to exacting moral and ethical standards. Robet J. Rubel, Ph.D. Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob), author, educator and photographer is an educational sociologist and researcher by training. He and his partner currently have six books in print and two DVDs ( one on fire play and one on beginning impact play). The recipient of the 2008 Pantheon of Leather’s Community Choice Award (man), Dr. Bob has been involved in the BDSM and Total Power Exchange (TPE) scene since the summer of 2001, throwing himself into the literature of the field as though it were an academic study. He presents, judges, and sells his books at weekend kink conferences throughout the year.