Secrets of a Successful Marriage Finally Revealed: Bless, Safe and Secure Love-Call to Purity, Holiness and Sanctity

Carena, Fresnel Samson

ISBN 10: 1463430019 / ISBN 13: 9781463430016

Editore: AuthorHouse Publishing, 2011

Codice articolo ABLIING23Mar2716030051771

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This book is for a person of mature age, any gender, any race and origin who wants to have a blessed successful relationship without problems. This book also belongs to you, who failed your first marriage and is seeking a second final chance of marriage. Welcome are you if you are an orphan, widow, poor or re-born spiritually. I encourage you to read this useful book and follow instructions.

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Secrets of a Successful MARRIAGE Finally Revealed

Bless, Safe and Secure LOVE Call to Purity, Holiness and SanctityBy Fresnel Samson CARENA

AuthorHouse

Copyright © 2011 Fresnel Samson CARENA
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ISBN: 978-1-4634-3001-6

Contents

INTRODUCTION.........................................................................................viiCHAPTER 1: Love and Marriage.........................................................................1CHAPTER 2: the Five commandments of Marriage.........................................................6CHAPTER 3: the Bible.................................................................................13CHAPTER 4: Factors that affects how we choose a partner..............................................16CHAPTER 5: Most important unique factors for a blessed, safe and secure marriage.....................29CHAPTER 6: other factors that can affect a marriage's blessings......................................40CHAPTER 7: Stages of a relationship..................................................................59CHAPTER 8: Most important celebrations...............................................................63CHAPTER 9: Life after marriage: Couple and family life...............................................68CHAPTER 10: the pregnancy............................................................................88CHAPTER 11: Sexuality................................................................................98CHAPTER 12: nature Vs Science........................................................................107

Chapter One

Love and Marriage

Love is important for a successful marriage. It appears in many ways and between livings creatures. Animals love each other as humans also do. In this case, we will be interested in human Love.

UNIT 1: LOVE

Love, a Devine treasure, is more expensive than diamond. It is sacred important and everybody is looking for the best love. What is the real meaning of love and marriage?

1.) Definition

LOVE: is a natural felling that exist and connect humans. We should love each other as ordered by God because he loves us too. For many people, being loved is really sacred and it not only defines but also is part of their happiness. Love should be until your last breath; however it appears in many ways.

2.) Different kind of love

They are currently many types of love such as Brotherly love, Friendship Love, romantic love, parental Love etc ... they are different based on its characteristics and depend on the person toward love or feeling is expressed. For example, love between husband and Wife is expressed by romance, intimate moment, kissing, sexual relation etc ... different from the love between brothers and sisters which is expressed by friendship, compassion, understanding, etc.... each one of them should not be confound. Also, maternal love is the affection a mother has for her baby.

3.) Crush

A crush is a strong; sudden and brief love feel toward another person. Most of the time, it does not last for a long period of time. A crush ends with regrets and hurt feelings and emotions.

Even though love is precious, is it really important?

4.) Importance of Love

Love is sacred, precious and very important. It makes people feel the joy of living and show that we all have the same God, happy to live together and rely on each other. A world without love is a world at war.

UNIT 2: MARRIAGE

Marriage is known when a man and woman symbolize their union with a finger ring. Marriage is as important as love but many people are unaware of the definition and how to get married.

1.) Definition

Marriage: is the union in Body, in Spirit and in Soul between a man and a woman. You become married to someone the first time you have sexual intercourse with your first partner. It is so important to stay with the first person because only the first marriage is recognized sacred. Men and Women had been created to form one body one day because they complete each other. Marriage is the seed of a family and a generation. Nobody should separate two people united by God. this prophecy is big.

Everybody does not get married the same way. What is the best way to get married?

2.) Different kind of Marriage

There are many ways to love and get married to someone. Today, everybody does not get married the same way. What is the best way to get married?

* Natural marriage

A marriage is natural when a man and a woman meet and know each other very well, then fell in love and began a family together. They each have a natural attraction toward each other and accept one another. A natural marriage is the best.

* Long distance relationship

A long distance relationship is very difficult. Meeting man or woman on the internet or looking for a date via the media is not truthful. There is a reason behind wall that make people to lean toward internet dating. Most of the time it is because they had been unsuccessful to find their soul mate. When man and woman are not together but communicate either by phone, mails, internet or fax is not appropriate. Most of the time it does not succeed and sometime end tragically. Long distance relationship is not the better way to have a blessed, safe and secure marriage.

The following difficulties are encounters during a long distance relationship:

• More expensive ways of communication

• Lack of trust and believe

• Virtual love and feelings

• Un-ability to know the person and the family very well

* Forced marriage

A marriage is forced when a man and a woman have been force to love and live with each other and begin a generation without their will or consent. Love should be natural and marriage should be too. For example, a woman is being forced to married a man because his family is wealthy. This practice still exists today in many countries and family.

A forced marriage has the following signs:

• Unreal love or/and feeling

• Constant arguments

• Absence of romance and natural sex

* Arranged marriage

An arranged marriage occur when there is a favor, an agreement between each other without mutual love. Having an arranged marriage is a really bad idea because love should be natural. Forced marriage and arranged marriage might look the same but are different. For example, a father gives a fortune to his best friend in exchange for his daughter. The best friend's daughter and the father's son might not have a natural connection, attraction. An arranged marriage is very common across the world and should be abolished. An arranged marriage has the same characteristics as a forced marriage because love is not natural between both partners.

* Prophecy marriage

A prophetic marriage is very rare. It is hidden because only God acts. Most of the time justice or revenge should be served. It is only visible with high spirituality families. In a prophetic marriage, the consequences are the results of the causes of the past and it is impossible to change or avoid anything.

* Spiritual marriage

A natural love and marriage should always be spiritual because it has been approved and blessed by God. In this case, the man and the woman are connected spiritually for the protection of their family and their marriage. It most likely occurs the first time they make love.

* Satanic marriage

A marriage is satanic when the man for example goes to see a voodoo master and asks him to make a woman love him. Magic Charms and talismans are used to keep them together. This practice is unnatural and unspiritual. It does not last and it is never blessed by God.

Chapter Two

The Five commandments of Marriage

Marriage is an important and sacred act. Man and woman will leave their parents, live together and form one Body. They are five most important laws that define a marriage.

UNIT 1: MARRIAGE/UNION SHOULD BE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN

A marriage is only recognized by God when it is between a man and a woman. They shall mate and multiply on the earth. They complete one another.

1.) Homosexuality

Homosexuality, also call GAY is sexual attraction to or sexual relations with members of the samesex. It is a Sin and an abomination. Brotherly love should not be mixed with intimate romantic love. Man should never perform any gay act on his wife, even during her menstruation or pregnancy.

2.) Heterosexuality

A person is heterosexual when he or she is sexually oriented to persons of the opposite sex. All humans had been created heterosexual and continue to be born heterosexual. It is natural and non-sinful.

3.) Transgender

Some people are born with both some combination of male and female anatomy. This is generally called intersex. A transgender person is someone whose personal idea of gender does not correlate with his or her assigned gender role. It is seen spiritually as unnatural.

UNIT 2: YOU SHOULD HAVE FAITH, TRUST AND BELIEVE IN GOD AND LOVE HIM

God is the only one who knows what is best for us. It is always in our best interests to have faith, trust and believe in him.

1.) Faith

Faith is the Believe in speech, in thoughts, in action and in spirit of the existence of God, the supreme spiritual leader of all humans and the creator of the universe.

Faith is an amazing natural power which connects humans with God and it is the solution of all problems.

2.) Thoughts and speech

A though is what you think and a speech is what you say. Thoughts and speech are related. We can have numerous thoughts at the same time and said many things at the same time. God gave humans memories different from Animals.

Be very careful of your speech and think numerous times before speaking because a speech can have better or worst consequences on others.

CONCLUSION

Thoughts and speech are included in Faith and they are powerful. If you have faith and believe something or said something, you will see it happens. Be very careful of what you believe.

UNIT 3: NOBODY SHOULD SEPARATE TWO PEOPLE WHO LOVE EACH OTHER

When two people are together and love each other, nobody should try to separate them in anyway. God knows why he allows them to stay happy, be married and have a family. Even if two people of the opposite sex are dating or seeing each other, never try to stop them because you are not aware of God's plans.

Genesis 2:24 (For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. Shall nobody separate them. This prophecy is huge.)

1.) Example

A father abandoned his first wife because she had epilepsy decided to remarry after the death of his second wife. He took with force his second wife from a man she loved and he committed adultery. He had two sons with the first woman he rejected, and two sons and one daughter with the second wife. God, to punish him and get revenge to his first wife made his first son he had with the second woman to have the same epilepsy disease he abandoned his first wife for.

Years later, his epileptic son (the first from the second marriage) and his first son (first son from the first marriage) fasted and prayed for forty days because they did not want their father to take the third wife he liked and loved. Weeks later, the sick son's health got worst and always encounters difficulties during his life. However, the second who also fasted was not severely punished by God and his life is fair because his mother was abandoned due to her illness. Their worst mistake was to stay 40 days fasting to delay and stop their father from taking the third wife in marriage.

Cursed are those who, instead of helping couples in crises find a solution to solve their marriage problems and remain together, separate them with divorce and bad advices. You should feel guilty of destroying happiness.

2.) GOD blessings

When a man and a woman love each other and are married, God bless their marriage and their wedding wishes become true. They become one flesh, one body and nobody should separate or try to separate them with faith, prayers or in speech and actions.

CONCLUSION

Parents: support and accept the person your child loves and has chosen to have a happy life with. You are not the one who will wed your child. the child is free to decide whoever he or she wants to marry. Blessed your child union and never try to separate them because you cannot go against God's wishes.

Children: never denied anybody's request for relationship. If you are single and someone asked to be happy with you, give that person a chance because you don't know God's plans. Don't lie and reject the person for any reason. What would you do if months later you realized that the person you refused to love become wealthy and was in fact sent by God?

UNIT 4: MAN AND WOMAN SHOULD REMAIN FAITHFUL AND LOVE EACH OTHER UNTIL THEIR LAST BREATH

Despite any difficulties, problems and obstacles man and woman should always resolve them together in order to not only safe their marriage but also their family.

1.) Fornication

Fornication is voluntary sexual intercourse between a man and woman who are not married to each other. Many culture think that if a couple (a man and a woman) have voluntary sexual intercourse that result in pregnancy, they both committed fornication because they are not married. It is wrong.

If a woman becomes pregnant for a man she loves without being married with him has not committed fornication or adultery if she remains with him, wed him and start a family together. Before to get married, you have to be ready financially, emotionally and psychologically.

Everybody does not have a wedding party in order to be considered married. A man and a woman can have children together, love each other and remain faithful to one another and be considered married.

2.) Adultery

Adultery, also called fornication is voluntary sexual intercourse between a man and a woman outside their marriage. For example, if a married woman has voluntary sexual intercourse with another married or not-married man, she committed adultery. Adultery is a Sin.

If you look at a married woman and you compliment her or like her, you committed adultery.

3.) Polygamy

Polygamy (man) is being married to two or more women at the same time. A man is called polygamist when he is married to two or more women. Polygamy is always associated with problems and bad effects like jealousy, strife, murder, lies, theft and disparities. So even though it may be acceptable before God, it is after all a bad idea and should not be practiced.

4.) Polyandry

Polyandry is the practice of being married to two or more husbands at the same time. This practice is rare and not welcomed in many cultures. Like polygamy, polyandry is associated with many problems and it is not acceptable by GOD.

5.) Fidelity

Fidelity is being faithful, honest and truthful to someone. We shall all be faithful to God and a woman must be faithful to her husband. A husband must be faithful to his wife.

To be faithful to your partner, you shall not:

• Voluntary or un-voluntary have sexual intercourse with another person of the opposite sex(adultery)

• Kiss, touch, hold, compliment another person of the opposite sex that can be your partner

• date, make sexual advance, make sexual gestures to another person

CONCLUSION

A person who had two wives and is currently married to the third is not practicing polygamy.

It is very easy to be faithful to your partner and never commit adultery.

UNIT 5: YOU SHOULD REMAIN SAINT, PURE AND HAVE A MARRIAGE BUILD UPON THE BIBLE

It is very easy to remain pure by following the laws and commandments of the BIBLE. The body is the house of God's spirit and it must be pure. Marriage and family should have the BIBLE as base of support. The Bible is an important source required in a relationship. Virginity is also sign of purity.

1.) Sins

Sins are committed on a daily basis in thoughts, in speech and in actions. Sometimes, it is difficult to predict or to control our simultaneous actions, mainly when we are not alone. Some sins are tolerable and forgivable while others are punishable.

* Voluntary sins

A sin is voluntary when it has been committed while being aware, accepted and done with conscience. A voluntary sin is punishable. human's memory is different than animal and they think before acting or making a decision. Humans should not act like animals. For example, adultery, murder, idolatry ... are among the worst punishable sins.

* Involuntary sins

A sin is involuntary when it has been committed without knowledge, while being in doubt or during a situation. Most involuntary sins are forgivable because they are made upon a circumstance. For example, a mother makes a tattoo on her child skin. You are diabetic and still a candy bar in a store to keep your sugar high for your own safety and your health. You lie to save someone's life or your own advantage.

CONCLUSION

Some sins are forgivable. It is good to forgive others, even though it cannot be forgotten. Stay away from sinful habits and think before saying something and doing something. GOD forgives our sin.

Chapter Three

The Bible

The BIBLE remained a mystery in today's world and is still misunderstood. 100% of the BIBLE content is true but 40% was written according to a pass generation. For example, many empires, kingdoms and personages names do not exist anymore today. Among those still existing are: Israel, Egypt, Jordan, Rome etc....

Wisdom and knowledge are the main keys for understanding the BIBLE and allow us to make our own judgments and create our own laws.

UNIT 1: WISDOM

Wisdom is a natural gift possessed by some people. It makes humans make good judgment and know the difference between the Good and the BAD. Wisdom is a spirit of pardon, love, pity, believes in God and the quality of being wise; knowledge, and the capacity to make due use of it; knowledge of the best ends and the best means; discernment and judgment; discretion; sagacity; skill; dexterity.

UNIT 2: KNOWLEDGE

Knowledge is everything we know, we study and the intelligence given by God to humans for better judgment and memories. Knowledge is also the state of knowing; clear perception of fact, truth, or duty; certain apprehension and comprehension.

UNIT 3: CRITICAL THINKING

Critical thinking is the intellectually disciplined process of actively and skillfully conceptualizing, questioning, applying, analyzing, synthesizing, and/or evaluating information gathered from, or generated by, observation, experience, reflection, reasoning, communication and conclusion as a guide to belief and action upon circumstances. Scientists, researchers, poets and philosophes and everyone use critical thinking to solve problems and find solutions. It is also the art of thinking.

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