ISBN: 9798185688878 - the cage with no bars: why we defend the very things that trap us — and how to get free (6 risultati)

Taschenbuch. Condizione: Neu. Neuware - The nicest prison ever built has no bars, because the budget went into making sure you never want to check the door.A man holds proof in his hands that his whole world is a set. Minutes later he hands it back and drives to work. Not because he's stupid. Because an explanation arrived before his question could finish forming. You do this too. Your proof is just quieter.The Cage With No Bars is about one of the strangest facts in human psychology: a person can hold the truth in their hands, even admit it's true, and still go on living inside the lie. This book shows you the machinery behind that, and then hands you the small set of practices that actually gets a person out.Inside, you'll learn: - Why real cages are built from comfort, not walls, and why the 'no' in your life was never spoken, only arranged- How your own mind edits reality before you ever see it (your reality tunnel), and who trained the filter- Why the people who love you most often guard the door, sincerely and for free- The honest version of the famous 'doomsday cult' study, including what the textbooks leave out- How fear gets bundled with a ready-made solution to move you, and the ten-second check that lets you slow down- Three small, private practices (hunt seams, not villains; audit your own flinch first; break character in small doses) that no one can take from youWhat this book will never do is sell you a villain. No secret rooms, no corkboard and string. A pattern is not a plot, and the moment you go hunting for the villain, you stop seeing the mechanism, which is the only thing you can actually change.You won't have to blow up your life. You won't have to announce anything to anyone. You need one skill, and it starts with one small refusal: the refusal to set the evidence down so fast. …

Paperback. Condizione: new. Paperback. The nicest prison ever built has no bars, because the budget went into making sure you never want to check the door.A man holds proof in his hands that his whole world is a set. Minutes later he hands it back and drives to work. Not because he's stupid. Because an explanation arrived before his question could finish forming. You do this too. Your proof is just quieter.The Cage With No Bars is about one of the strangest facts in human psychology: a person can hold the truth in their hands, even admit it's true, and still go on living inside the lie. This book shows you the machinery behind that, and then hands you the small set of practices that actually gets a person out.Inside, you'll learn: Why real cages are built from comfort, not walls, and why the "no" in your life was never spoken, only arrangedHow your own mind edits reality before you ever see it (your reality tunnel), and who trained the filterWhy the people who love you most often guard the door, sincerely and for freeThe honest version of the famous "doomsday cult" study, including what the textbooks leave outHow fear gets bundled with a ready-made solution to move you, and the ten-second check that lets you slow downThree small, private practices (hunt seams, not villains; audit your own flinch first; break character in small doses) that no one can take from youWhat this book will never do is sell you a villain. No secret rooms, no corkboard and string. A pattern is not a plot, and the moment you go hunting for the villain, you stop seeing the mechanism, which is the only thing you can actually change.You won't have to blow up your life. You won't have to announce anything to anyone. You need one skill, and it starts with one small refusal: the refusal to set the evidence down so fast. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.…

PAP. Condizione: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. THIS BOOK IS PRINTED ON DEMAND. Established seller since 2000.

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Paperback. Condizione: new. Paperback. The nicest prison ever built has no bars - because the budget went into making sure you never want to check the door.A man holds proof in his hands that his whole world is a set - and thirty seconds later he hands it back and drives to work. Not because he's stupid. Because an explanation arrived before his question could finish forming. You do this too. Your proof is just quieter.The Cage With No Bars is about the strangest fact in human psychology: showing someone the truth usually makes them grip the lie harder. This book shows you the machinery behind that - and then hands you the small set of practices that actually gets a person out.Inside, you'll learn: Why real cages are built from comfort, not walls - and why the "no" in your life was never spoken, only arrangedHow your own mind edits reality before you ever see it (your reality tunnel), and who trained the filterWhy the people who love you most often guard the door - sincerely, and for freeThe honest version of the famous "doomsday cult" study, including what the textbooks leave outHow fear gets bundled with a ready-made solution to move you - and the ten-second tell that exposes itThree small, private practices - hunt seams, not villains; audit your own flinch first; break character in small doses - that no one can take from youWhat this book will never do is sell you a villain. No secret rooms, no corkboard and string. A pattern is not a plot - and the moment you go hunting for the villain, you stop seeing the mechanism, which is the only thing you can actually change.You won't have to blow up your life. You won't have to announce anything to anyone. You need one skill, and it starts with one small refusal - the refusal to set the evidence down so fast.The door is closer than you think. Open the book. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability.…