Kamila pasha (11 risultati)

Taschenbuch. Condizione: Neu. Neuware.

Paperback. Condizione: new. Paperback. You know a lot of people. They like you. They invite you. They laugh with you. And yet, when something really matters, you sometimes wonder: Why am I never the person they call first?That question sits at the heart of NOBODY'S FAVOURITE.After being asked to name one person to contact in a hospital emergency, Kamila Pasha discovers an uncomfortable truth: having hundreds of warm relationships is not the same as having a few people who would actually show up. What follows is a candid, funny, sometimes painful examination of the difference between being liked and being deeply known.This is not a book about becoming more charming, more popular, or more indispensable. It is about learning how real closeness is built-and why some of the habits that make you pleasant, useful, generous, and easy to like can quietly keep you from becoming someone's first call.Across eight sharply observed chapters, Pasha explores the hidden mechanics of adult friendship: why friendship should not be treated as a consolation prize; how "being interesting" can become a form of auditioning; why remembering the details of another person's life matters more than saying the perfect thing in the moment; and why one beloved friend should never be expected to carry every role in your life.She confronts the less comfortable territory too: envy when a friend succeeds, the exhaustion of constantly fixing other people's problems, the danger of becoming someone's emotional mechanic, and the painful moment when your generosity simply does not come back.Most importantly, this book is practical.You will learn how to rank relationships by evidence rather than titles. How to stop performing and arrive as your ordinary self. How to ask the second question-the one everyone else forgets to ask three weeks later. How to build "standing slots" that turn occasional affection into dependable connection. How to ask for the right kind of support without quietly assigning one person four jobs. How to recognize when a friendship is reciprocal-and what to do when it isn't.There are no empty promises that you simply "deserve better people." There is no formula for becoming universally loved. Instead, there are honest questions, small experiments, specific sentences, and uncomfortable truths that can change the way you give, receive, choose, and sustain friendship.At its heart, NOBODY'S FAVOURITE asks a deceptively simple question: Are you spending your life trying to be everyone's favourite, while failing to become someone's first call?If you have ever felt surrounded by people but strangely unheld, this book will feel personal. If you are always the one who remembers, helps, listens, organizes, checks in, and shows up, it may feel even more personal.And if you are ready to stop auditioning for belonging and start building relationships that can actually hold weight, this is where you begin.It is a book about love in its least glamorous form: repeated presence, honest requests, remembered details, shared ordinary time, and the courage to let relationships reveal what they really are. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.…

PAP. Condizione: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. THIS BOOK IS PRINTED ON DEMAND. Established seller since 2000.

Paperback. Condizione: new. Paperback. You know the person you would call at two in the morning. The question is harder: who would call you? Not who follows you. Not who likes your posts. Not who would send a birthday message. Who would hear the crack in your voice, put down what they were doing, and come? That is the question at the heart of THE PEOPLE MAGNET. This is not a book about becoming charming, popular, impressive or endlessly agreeable. It is not a networking manual disguised as friendship advice. And it is not another collection of tricks for making strangers like you. It is about something quieter-and much more powerful: becoming a person people feel safe choosing. Modern life has made friendship strangely difficult. We have hundreds of contacts, endless group chats and constant digital contact, yet many people reach Sunday evening with nobody they genuinely want to call. We perform. We curate. We wait for the perfect time to reconnect. We expect one partner or one best friend to carry an entire village. Meanwhile, real closeness is being built somewhere else: in the ordinary Wednesday, the remembered detail, the standing walk, the unglamorous check-in, the moment when someone tells you something difficult and you resist the urge to fix it. THE PEOPLE MAGNET gives you five habits that make those moments happen more often: * Become the Keeper of Their Story - remember what matters to people, and let them feel that their life has stayed with you. * Quit Expecting One Person to Be Your Everything - build a richer circle instead of loading every emotional need onto one relationship. * Discover the Underrated Magic of Boring Rituals - because "we should catch up sometime" is not a plan, and affection without structure quietly evaporates. * Hold Space Without Fixing - learn how to stay beside someone's difficulty without turning their pain into a problem you must solve. * Practise Radical, Un-Possessive Gladness - become the rare person who can celebrate another person's good news without comparison, competition or a private scorecard. The book also tackles the habits that get in the way: performing instead of being known, confusing usefulness with being wanted, hiding every need, chasing people who do not reciprocate, and mistaking a crowded contact list for a close life. You will find practical exercises throughout, including the Love Audit and a thirty-day challenge designed to move these ideas out of your head and into your calendar. Most importantly, this book does not ask you to become someone else. You can be shy. Awkward. Introverted. Busy. Bad at small talk. You do not need a bigger personality, a better body, more money or a more interesting life. You need to become better at the small things people remember. Because nobody becomes beloved through one magnificent gesture. They become beloved because, over and over again, they were there. On an ordinary Thursday. And eventually, when somebody's life falls apart at two in the morning, their thumb stops on your name. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability. …

PAP. Condizione: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. THIS BOOK IS PRINTED ON DEMAND. Established seller since 2000.

Taschenbuch. Condizione: Neu. Neuware.

PAP. Condizione: New. New Book. Delivered from our UK warehouse in 4 to 14 business days. THIS BOOK IS PRINTED ON DEMAND. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Condizione: New. New Book. Delivered from our UK warehouse in 4 to 14 business days. THIS BOOK IS PRINTED ON DEMAND. Established seller since 2000.

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Paperback. Condizione: new. Paperback. You know a lot of people. They like you. They invite you. They laugh with you. And yet, when something really matters, you sometimes wonder: Why am I never the person they call first?That question sits at the heart of NOBODY'S FAVOURITE.After being asked to name one person to contact in a hospital emergency, Kamila Pasha discovers an uncomfortable truth: having hundreds of warm relationships is not the same as having a few people who would actually show up. What follows is a candid, funny, sometimes painful examination of the difference between being liked and being deeply known.This is not a book about becoming more charming, more popular, or more indispensable. It is about learning how real closeness is built-and why some of the habits that make you pleasant, useful, generous, and easy to like can quietly keep you from becoming someone's first call.Across eight sharply observed chapters, Pasha explores the hidden mechanics of adult friendship: why friendship should not be treated as a consolation prize; how "being interesting" can become a form of auditioning; why remembering the details of another person's life matters more than saying the perfect thing in the moment; and why one beloved friend should never be expected to carry every role in your life.She confronts the less comfortable territory too: envy when a friend succeeds, the exhaustion of constantly fixing other people's problems, the danger of becoming someone's emotional mechanic, and the painful moment when your generosity simply does not come back.Most importantly, this book is practical.You will learn how to rank relationships by evidence rather than titles. How to stop performing and arrive as your ordinary self. How to ask the second question-the one everyone else forgets to ask three weeks later. How to build "standing slots" that turn occasional affection into dependable connection. How to ask for the right kind of support without quietly assigning one person four jobs. How to recognize when a friendship is reciprocal-and what to do when it isn't.There are no empty promises that you simply "deserve better people." There is no formula for becoming universally loved. Instead, there are honest questions, small experiments, specific sentences, and uncomfortable truths that can change the way you give, receive, choose, and sustain friendship.At its heart, NOBODY'S FAVOURITE asks a deceptively simple question: Are you spending your life trying to be everyone's favourite, while failing to become someone's first call?If you have ever felt surrounded by people but strangely unheld, this book will feel personal. If you are always the one who remembers, helps, listens, organizes, checks in, and shows up, it may feel even more personal.And if you are ready to stop auditioning for belonging and start building relationships that can actually hold weight, this is where you begin.It is a book about love in its least glamorous form: repeated presence, honest requests, remembered details, shared ordinary time, and the courage to let relationships reveal what they really are. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability.…

Paperback. Condizione: new. Paperback. You know the person you would call at two in the morning. The question is harder: who would call you? Not who follows you. Not who likes your posts. Not who would send a birthday message. Who would hear the crack in your voice, put down what they were doing, and come? That is the question at the heart of THE PEOPLE MAGNET. This is not a book about becoming charming, popular, impressive or endlessly agreeable. It is not a networking manual disguised as friendship advice. And it is not another collection of tricks for making strangers like you. It is about something quieter-and much more powerful: becoming a person people feel safe choosing. Modern life has made friendship strangely difficult. We have hundreds of contacts, endless group chats and constant digital contact, yet many people reach Sunday evening with nobody they genuinely want to call. We perform. We curate. We wait for the perfect time to reconnect. We expect one partner or one best friend to carry an entire village. Meanwhile, real closeness is being built somewhere else: in the ordinary Wednesday, the remembered detail, the standing walk, the unglamorous check-in, the moment when someone tells you something difficult and you resist the urge to fix it. THE PEOPLE MAGNET gives you five habits that make those moments happen more often: * Become the Keeper of Their Story - remember what matters to people, and let them feel that their life has stayed with you. * Quit Expecting One Person to Be Your Everything - build a richer circle instead of loading every emotional need onto one relationship. * Discover the Underrated Magic of Boring Rituals - because "we should catch up sometime" is not a plan, and affection without structure quietly evaporates. * Hold Space Without Fixing - learn how to stay beside someone's difficulty without turning their pain into a problem you must solve. * Practise Radical, Un-Possessive Gladness - become the rare person who can celebrate another person's good news without comparison, competition or a private scorecard. The book also tackles the habits that get in the way: performing instead of being known, confusing usefulness with being wanted, hiding every need, chasing people who do not reciprocate, and mistaking a crowded contact list for a close life. You will find practical exercises throughout, including the Love Audit and a thirty-day challenge designed to move these ideas out of your head and into your calendar. Most importantly, this book does not ask you to become someone else. You can be shy. Awkward. Introverted. Busy. Bad at small talk. You do not need a bigger personality, a better body, more money or a more interesting life. You need to become better at the small things people remember. Because nobody becomes beloved through one magnificent gesture. They become beloved because, over and over again, they were there. On an ordinary Thursday. And eventually, when somebody's life falls apart at two in the morning, their thumb stops on your name. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability. …